We're allowed to send a small photo album to X in China. I finally finished putting it together, and will mail it to our agency later this week. It's pretty homespun (and I don't mean that in a good way), but I think it will convey what it needs to: that X has a family waiting for him and that we love him already!
We still have no name for our boy! ARGH. At this point we may be submitting paperwork with his Chinese name only and adding a first name after he's adopted. Unless DH and I can magically come to consensus in the next two days.