Saturday, June 18, 2011

One week home...

...and life as a new adoptive family gets a little better each day.  There are many more smiles than tears (from all of us), and the triggers that had been setting Jiushu off into fits of grief, anger, or anxiety seem to be fading.  He is more relaxed and much happier as he is learning to recognize and trust us.  Making him smile or giggle feels like such a worthy accomplishment! 

And look who now has a pincer grasp.  I grabbed my camera quickly yesterday morning, so these are not particularly winsome photos (note the girl's bib, the prunes smeared on his face), but I was glad to document this milestone. 

 
We ventured out again to the park (walking) this week, and also to story time at our library.  Jiushu seemed to enjoy it.  He sat on the floor in front of me, and every few minutes would tilt his head back to catch my eye and then turn back to face the front.  He's doing fine in his car seat in the van...doesn't hurt that he faces the big kids sitting in the back.  And he's sleeping great too, a huge answer to prayers I prayed long before we brought him home.  In his crib, all night long, from day one.  (Yeah, that alone probably should eradicate any other frustrations, right?) 
 
 
We have our first doctor appointment at the international adoption clinic (at our great local children's hospital) next Friday, and I was pleased also to have scheduled a heart echocardiogram for J at the same time.  Please join us in praying for a successful visit, one in which Jiushu isn't too scared and we get some clear answers about his health and development and any treatment that might be required. 

5 comments:

Rita and John said...

Oh, I love that last photo! And it's great you recorded that milestone. How wonderful that each day is a bit better--and he sleeps! In his bed! All night! That's terrific. Praying all goes well with the medical appointments.

Shannon said...

Jerusha-It was great to meet you and Vince in Guanghzhou with your little guy. I just wanted to let you know that your faith and spirit shone through in spite of the trying time you were going through. I truly think that only good things can come from being honest with yourself and others about what you are feeling in terms of frustration, anger, and fatigue. It isn't always pretty, and it's ok to feel and say that! I continue to pray for you and your family and thank you for the opportunity to share in the joy of accomplishments/discoveries (no matter how small) and encourage/pray you over the hurdles and challenges as you grow to love this little guy. Shannon (Isaac's mom)

Gena said...

I am so happy to read these posts about how far Jiushu has come already, and to see the happy pictures! I miss you all. I will be in prayer about the upcoming doctor visit.

Peggy said...

I'm so glad to hear things are getting better! I really admire your honesty in the good and the bad. Showing the true face of adoption can only help prepare those of us following you.

That pic of Jiushu smiling melts my heart!

ysexton said...

Yea! Congratulations to Jiushu for becoming more and more of the boy he is meant to be! And to Jerusha and Vince and his brother and sisters for helping him to attain these milestones! So happy for all of you!

By the way, thanks for bringing the family to Mike's celebration Saturday! It was wonderful getting to meet Jiushu and to see you all. You look great! I know you had to get the kids home for nap time, but I missed being able to hold Jiushu so we will have to figure something out sometime! He certainly was taking in all the people and the activities!